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Why Does God Let My Husband Suffer?

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Suzanne: “My husband has been waiting for a kidney transplant for over two years. He and our family are suffering greatly. Personally, I am physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted. I have asked many people to pray for him and to pray that he gets the transplant soon. Why is God ignoring our pleas and prayers for a transplant? Why is God letting my husband suffer?”

The Voice for Love: “Dearest One, we know your pain and yet we want you to know that your love for your husband is the richest gift of medicine that could ever be given to and through both of you. Now you are learning that your bond is your eternal love for each other, under what seems to be the most dire of circumstances. The truth is that all of you have experienced a wonderful and growing awareness of love through your existence in this life’s drama.

“It would be helpful to you at this time, to share together your feelings of love and your memories of your lives together. Make it a daily challenge to share at least one thing from your experiences for which you are grateful. It matters not if that event or thing was great or small or anywhere in between in your experience. Just share it and express how you are grateful for it and the blessing it gave to you. If you wish, write down these memories and express your gratitude in written words, including how it made you feel then and how you feel about it now.

“Be assured that you and your husband are most valued by the Sonship of God. You are incredibly loved. You have lived your lives well, in spite of fears you have encountered. This time of unknowing is no exception. Be at peace with unknowing, as it is truly the condition of all humans. In the unknowing of each coming moment lies your eternal self and its acceptance of your life’s plan. And so it is with your husband. You are not being punished. Both of you are beloved of God and not apart from God. Your life plan will unfold as intended by your highest reality, but acceptance of both unknowing and all aspects of life’s journey will bring you peace and the space to express your love.

“Be at peace now, for you are safe. Your husband is always safe also. You are loved, you are love, and that is eternal.”

  • tonya

    DEAR SUZANNE,
                           I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND, PLEASE KNOW THAT AS PAINFUL AS ALL THIS MUST BE THE LORD DOES HAVE A REASON FOR IT. A REASON TO HELP YOU NOT HURT YOU. WHEN WE ARE GOING THROUGH SUCH PAINFUL SITUATIONS SOMETIMES THE PAIN BECOMES SO GREAT THAT WE CANT SEE WHAT CAN COME OUT OF THE PAIN.GODS WORD SAYS: 
    Romans 8:16-18
    The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.  Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.Present Suffering and Future GloryI consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.1 Peter 2:19-20For it is commendable if someone bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because they are conscious of God. But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God.1 Peter 4:12-19Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.  But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you. If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler. However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name. For it is time for judgment to begin with God’s household; and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who do not obey the gospel of God? And,“If it is hard for the righteous to be saved what will become of the ungodly and the sinner?”[a] So then, those who suffer according to God’s will should commit themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good.HANG IN THERE SUZANNE AND KNOW THAT GOD WILL NOT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SUFFER ONE MINUTE MORE THAN IS REQUIRED. MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND RICHLY!