Helen: “I am a single professional woman. I have never been married and I do not have any children. I had all but given up on ever finding someone and then, a while back, I met a man online with similar qualities as me and we fell in love! This has been going on for 4 months, but now I haven’t heard from him in several weeks. His last words were that he loved me. He is a Christian and has helped me so much with my own issues about life. Is there a such thing as a soul mate? Does God bring soul mates together? I am not sure what to believe anymore. I feel reassured anytime I ask God about this man and our love, but is it just wishful thinking on my part?
The Voice for Love: “Dear One, thank you for opening your heart to God for a higher perspective on this issue of your relationship with this man.
“In truth, all of Humanity could be called your Soul Mate, but this is not the answer you are seeking. Yes, there is someone for you to be with – never doubt this. Allow your heart to be open to receiving your answer in a way that you do not expect. It is not that there is just one certain, special person who, when you find him, will be everything you desire. There are any number of wonderful men you could be happy with.
“Please know that the love you feel for this one is real. God is speaking in your heart to tell you to bless this man and to bless your own love for him. After that, Dear One, release the love to God. Release all that you may desire. Release your expectations. Release your broken heart. Release it all, and continue to release it all.
“No matter what happens, you have received a great blessing. This man has helped you with your life issues. This man has also demonstrated to you that your heart is indeed open to receiving love into your life. What wonderful blessings this experience has brought to you. Do not be downhearted. Instead, ask God to show you how to keep your heart open. Ask God to lead you gently to all the experiences you need in order to receive everything your heart desires.
“Allow your life to expand in ways you have not allowed before. Allow yourself experiences that you have not allowed before. Do your best to open to new and different people, places and circumstances that will widen your outlook. Every little thing you do to expand your life is going to increase your frame of reference. You will learn about yourself and you will learn about life and how others view it. You will find that as you open more and more, you will gain a different perspective on your situation, and you will receive hints as to how to proceed.
“Please be gentle with yourself. Begin to ask yourself what would make you happy – no, not someone outside, but within yourself. What can you do for yourself that lifts your spirits? What can you look at, or listen to, or read, or sample in some way, that would please, delight and surprise you? Focus on these things. Do something unexpected, something spontaneous, something fun.
“You are very dearly loved. There is no heartfelt desire’s fulfillment that is withheld from you. Be courageous, be open-hearted, be faithful, be grateful. Ask and you will receive. Ask only for the highest good for yourself and all others. Smile, Beloved One!”